Are you disappointed?


Disappointments feel personal. But they are not your identity...

I’ve had my share of disappointments, Reader—dreams I thought were from God, plans I pursued with all my heart, only to see them collapse.

And here’s what I’ve realized:
What makes disappointment so heavy isn’t just the loss itself.
It’s the meaning we attach to it.

We tell ourselves things like:
“I failed.”
“I’m not good enough.”
“Maybe I’ll never get it right.”

Why? Because we’ve started to confuse our identity with our process.
But hear me, Reader—you are not your process.
You are not your timeline.
You are not your performance.

Your identity has always been in Jesus. And the process? That’s just the road He walks with you—full of questions, emotions, silence, and discovery.

In this week’s episode of Curious for Christ, we talk about the Emmaus Road in Luke 24 and what it means to walk through disappointment with Jesus. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s deeply human—and deeply sacred.

Because when our plans fall apart, it’s not the end of the story, Reader.
It might just be the beginning of seeing God more clearly.
And remembering that we don’t have to be God—we just get to be His beloved.

If you’re in a place of waiting or wondering what now, this one is for you.

With love and light in the process,


Alexandra ✗⚬メ𝟶

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